3. The choice of partner
The choice of a partner is the first step to start the engagement. It is not easy to make a good choice, since the bride and groom often hide their defects. Girls seek to attract the attention with their flirtatiousness and beauty and guys usually flirt, say compliments to conquer a woman.
It is essential to have a clear idea: courtship is a way toward marriage, or at least it must have this intention. Some young people confuse the courtship with gallantry, a frivolous affair, a romantic dream or a fleeting love of adolescents. Then, this courtship can end in an amicable or painful separation, but it began with an oriented intention.